~The SanTa CLaUs~

20/12/09
is kinda a special tat related to us~
ure planning to go genting and then u duno the way to come my house but u still come~lol
this day is ur birthday~i duno tat is ur birthday~
so i dint prepared anything~
but wishing u happy belated birthday alex dear~
some ppl asked me how long we met?i said 1 month++ like tat~
but actually is 2 month++im so blur..but u still remember how long we met..lol

the next day
the day with santa claus~
and the day i fall to my santa claus also!!!!lol
ur caring ur sincere to me~
i cant bear to accept it~
u keep looking for me when im not followed~
ur huggie is so warm like the pic how u hold me~haha

with the santalena...she is really damn nice girl^^

do u know u make me fall for u????lol

my sleepy santa claus..hahaha

the pic i took from photo..its not clear but i love the real photo..hehe

after the day we been whole day with santa claus^^
i got back home and sleep coz really so tired~
but im awake at 3am~
omg~
why im awake so suddenly~
my mind all is u santa claus~
my santa alex~tat time i just realise tat i really fall in love with u~
i couldnt slept tat nite~
i awake and then text u wat im feeling~
and i knew how much u mean for me~

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23/12/09
day by day missed u more & more
i know u missed me more..hahaha
after 2 day we meet again..coz really missed each other~
tat's y tat day u willing came to my college fetch me just wanna to c me once~
i feel so touching baby~
we chil out at the station 1 and then took some random photo~
tat's the second time we took pics~
i love the pics on u honey~
u are my handsome baby..lol

the same week again..its the christmas day~
u promise me tat u will take me go to genting~
but ur friend couldnt make it...i knew u are unhappy coz ur car got prob cant make the promise~
but after tat ur friend still take us go..lol
i understand u my love~
even i know got lots girls trying to want u~
and u scare i misunderstand~
honestly..i was scare to lost u~
i know u love me and i love u too~
even when we were in genting im damn sleepy..
but ur funny action make me remembered..lol
ur trying to make me happy i know~
u make the love for me with money~hahaha
i still remember tat u said dont waste it..lolx
i keep in my wallet honey~its mean alot to me~

u telling all ur friends tat im ur gf~
of course im happy~
i know u love me~
so i will love u as much as u love me~haha



I HEART U

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~EnD~

there is no more Nanaz & Nanas~
im so sorry nanaz~
i think we should end the relationship between us~
i really cant feel the love u giving when ur not care me as much as i care u~
when u said u still love me a lot~
realise tat the mistake of our relationship~
im cried a lot when i saw ur msg want me back~
i wish i can do something~
but i really duno wat should i do~
i try to make tis relationship alive~
i know u feeling sad there~im sad too as well~
u know im easy to cried~
when the love 1 break ur heart...the pain from the heart~~
nobody will understand how hurt is it~
its too late when now u just tell me~
i duno wat should i do????my tears ~~T.T
i wish u the best nanaz~
dooset daram

~ShoPpinG DaY~

the day out with my dear friend vivi again~
tat day i had bought alots of clothes...but i still haven finished buy coz no time~
we shopping at the sg.wang after tat go to time square~
the decoration in sg.wang not bad~

♥HapPy 6th MonTh AnniVerSarY♥

♥nanaz & nanas♥

this love story maintain till 6th month~

from 14th of jun - 14th of dec~

of course within this 6 month we have some lil fight~

but everything is cool now~

sadness,happiness been happened~

that's what love being~

♥♥♥♥♥

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*~my family photo~*

recently i dint blogger for longer~
coz happened lots of crazy stuff~
and im lazy to release my feeling here~
now i become better everything willbe cool~


so below pic is our whole family photo~
took few month ago~lolx
im looking so fat on this pic..T.T


this my dad and mom..my mom no look like her..too editing..lolx

mom

me

sis

those 3 personal pic are free coz the promotion hair treatment for my sis's saloon~
the another whole family pic is rm120~

*~Melilea international rally~*

7th of nov~
i went to bukit jalil coz have a melilea commend convention celebration the 7th year anniversary~
i went to support them which is sucessful in this career~
i have using this product also~its very nice~
everything is organic except the new launch cosmetic~
im using this skin care product too..its make me become white..lolx

those crown star from indonesia,taiwan,singapore and some brunei~
the entertainer is our malaysian singer..michael wong,manhand and indonesian singer rosa~

we took some pic there^^

~Trust~

Trust is so fragile that is hard to put back to its original state when broken.

• Never tell a lie, always tell the truth. And, say it kindly and tactfully.
• Be real, do not act like somebody you are not.
  
• Do not gossip about other people’s life. The one you are talking to may think you are gossiping her at her back. The worst scene is – if he pass what you said to other people too.
  
• Never betray a confidence. Do not tell the secrets confided to you.
  
• Keep all the promises you made. If you cannot keep a promise, better not to promise at all.
  
• When you borrow something, always return it as soon as possible.

*ritehealth

~OuR CAt LEaVe Us foRevER~

our cat(BaiBai)~
he is the only 1 cat stay longer in our family~
we treat him like our brother~
and my parent treat him like son~very love him~
few day ago~
he got injured on the leg~
me and mom bring him went to c doctor~
and his leg was snap~and then the doctor heal on the leg~
we guess that he must be crack by a car~he so scared~
this morning~before i went to class~
my daddy wanna see him how was it~keep called him shake him he dint reaction~
my daddy said he already die~wuwuwu~
im so sad~its my fault~i will regret i dint feed him medicines~
last nite we forgot to feed and i said this morning just feed~
but it was late~i wont feed him anymore~and he wont came back to us~
im sorry baibai..wish u bless in the god~u always in our memory..T.T


that's the last pic i took when i bring him go to c the doctor..T.T

到底为了什么？？？？？？？？？

无论在爱情，亲情或者友情里，吵架的时候，到底什么最重要？？骄傲，自尊，面子还是输赢？？ 其实不管结果是谁贏谁输，谁有面子或谁又低声下气， 最后赔上的只是这份感情，谁也沒贏～因为实际上双方都是兩败俱伤。 有沒有想过，爭吵的目的是为了什么？ 其实很多时候我们都不是單純的為了道理讲理，而是为了賭一口氣，男生女生亦然， 因此爭吵到了最後其实很多时候早已偏离了真正的主題，最后的代价却是两颗伤痕累累的心。 可是往往我们在和好后，才体认出那迷失， 可是泪也白流了，气也白生了，是何必？还是活该呢？ 人生气的时候，不说气话不做恶事，真的很难。可是我们却忘了，很多时候哪些难听的话，也许会在对方心里留下了一个伤口。

^^LOVE IS PATIENT^^

St Paul places “love is patient” way ahead of all other virtues like kindness, compassion, courtesy, generosity and humility. Why does St Paul stress that patience is the first and foremost definition of love? Has St Paul got it all wrong? Is love possible without patience? Is patience all that important?

In our fast paced modern life, we have to complete our projects ahead of competitors. We carry this behavior trait back to our family and we are impatient when we do not get our way. We expect our spouse to cater to us immediately after one reminder or two. When we don’t get what we want and at the time desired, we become irritated or angry. But being patient means allowing, accommodating and accepting the other person’s ideas, values, personality and mannerism. So we need to constantly remind ourselves: “Am I loving when I don’t accommodate my spouse’s ways? Do I show love when I don’t accept my spouse’s point of view?” We know for certain that we do not practice love at that particular moment since a loving heart is a patient heart.

Little things inevitably happen in our lives and in our homes. Misunderstanding and conflict come to every home. During such moments, we get angry and sulk. We tend to blame: Why must I suffer the hurt and tantrum? Why should I bear the injury? Why must I endure the accusation? Why should I accept the slight? But, for any family relationship to flourish we need patience to humbly resolve the conflict. And, patience means accepting, bearing, enduring, over-looking, suffering the slights, shortcomings, blame, accusation, tantrums, injuries and hurts, without retaliation. Thus we must regularly ask: “Am I spending time to patiently cultivate the family relationship? Have I been patient to grow our relationship? Do I neglect to improve our relationship because I am impatient?

So how do we cultivate this most vital definition of love by St Paul? In order to be able to develop this loving patience we have to learn to forgive readily and endlessly. As Mother Teresa said, “if we really want to love, we must learn to forgive before anything else.” (One heart full of love, 113) “We must make our homes centers of compassion and forgive endlessly.” (“A Gift for God”, 18) St Paul says, “Be tolerant with one another and forgive one another whenever any one of you has a complaint against someone else.”(Colossians 3:13)

The passages below are taken from the book, “Our Lady says: Love People” by Rev. Albert Joseph Mary Shamon.

Love Is Patient (1 Corinthians. 13:4)
The Greek word Paul uses for patience is makrothumei. This word means patience with people, not patience with circumstances, like sickness, poverty, or death.
Paul was writing to the Corinthians--to people who needed to have patience with other people. Therefore, to his classic description of love, we can add a preposition plus people to each of his 14 descriptive words for love. Thus, love is patient--with people; love is kind--to people; love is not jealous--of people, etc.

Charlie Brown once said: “Mankind I love; people I hate.” But it is people we have to contend with. When people get close together, there is bound to be personality friction, for no two persons are alike. Rub two pieces of wood together, and you will have fire. Put people together under the same roof, in the same office or in the same parish or in the same house, like husband and wife, parents and children, and you will have plenty of fuel for a good fight.

A feuding married couple went to a priest for counseling. The priest sat at his desk, and the couple sat opposite him, and a cat and dog sat placidly by the desk. When the priest had finished his counseling, he concluded with these words: “Joe and Mary, why can’t you get along like this cat and dog?” Joe quipped, “Father, tie them together and see how long they’ll stay that way.”
As cars need a lubricant to keep parts that rub against other parts, like the pistons in the motor, from freezing fast, so people need a lubricant to keep them living smoothly together. That lubricant is the virtue of patience.
Our blessed Lord asked us to imitate His patience. “Learn from me,” He said, “for I am gentle and humble of heart” (Matt. 11:29). Our Lord, as far as we know, never had any physical ailments. He did not have to put up with bodily sickness. But He had to put up with people.

People afflict us in two different ways: some afflict us unwittingly, and some afflict us by their behavior. I often think of how hard it must have been for Our Lord to have had only the apostles for companions. He was the Word of God, divine intelligence. They were illiterate fisherman; goodwilled, indeed, but often so obtuse when it came to understanding Him. Right up to the night before He died, He did not seem to get through to them. To Philip He said, “After I have been with you all this time, you still do not know me?” (John 14:9). The same misunderstanding surfaced again after the Last Supper when He was talking to them about their mission, So, with divine patience, Jesus finally says, “Enough” (Luke 22:38). Always, He was so gentle with them, for “love is patient.”

How often we may have thought that the people around us are stupid or do stupid things. Have you ever said, “He or she drives me up a wall!” “He or she means well, but they get on my nerves.” Or you complain, “Why they would make holy Job lose his patience.” You are really losing yours when you so think.

Then there are other people who afflict us just by their behavior. They are arrogant, self-righteous, judgmental, like the Pharisee in the parable of the Pharisee and the tax-collector (Luke 18:9-14). They look down on others, are snobbish, condemn others, spurn them, speak evil against them. That was the way most scribes and Pharisees treated Jesus.
He could have hit back, but He did not. And that is what patience really is.

Patience means accepting, enduring, suffering (that is where the word came from: patiens means “suffering”) the slights, injuries, hurts inflicted by people--suffering them for the love of God.

What makes patience a virtue is its motive: love of God. ‘‘Love is patient,” that is, true Christian patience has to be an expression of love, of love of God.

A salesman puts up with all kinds of abuse--just to make a sale.
Indians used to endure frightful tortures--just to become “a brave,”
Stoics suppressed their feelings--just to be considered “manly.”
Such endurance may be laudable, but it is not necessarily virtuous.

“Love is patient,” that is, true patience must be an expression of love, of love of God. It is that motive which makes all endurance a virtue. It is not what we do that counts, but why; not the mountains we move, but the motives that impel us to move them.

True Christian patience puts up with others just as God puts up with us. He lets His sun shine on good and bad alike and His rain fall on the just and the unjust. (Matthew 5:45). With God there is no favoritism (Romans 2:11).

Christian love must be like that. God loves all and always has their highest good at heart. Our Lady at Medjugorje repeatedly answered, when asked about her love for a particular people or nation, that she is the Mother of all and loves all and wills the salvation of all peoples. Christian patience must be like that--an expression of a love that is Godlike and Marylike.

We need patience just to survive--for people are people. Some will be inconsiderate, some will be downright mean and selfish. And we shall inevitably run into such people. Their meanness and inconsideration could make us sad, depressed or discouraged. If we let that happen, life for us will come to a standstill. ‘‘Sorrow,” said Paul, “brings death” (2 Corinthians 7:10). Sirach said it does no good to yield to it (30:23). Shakespeare called sorrow the enemy of life.

Patience, on the contrary, does not just endure hurts and injuries; rather it embraces them with love and so sucks out the venom in them. Instead of sorrow, there is joy--joy in knowing that evil has been turned into good.

Without patience we will not survive in life. I remember flying from Chicago to Kansas City one summer. It was the bumpiest ride I ever had. The wings flapped like a seal before breakfast. I thought the plane would fall apart. Later, I learned that elasticity had been built into the wings on purpose. Had the wings been rigid and inflexible, the sudden stresses and strains from wind and air pockets would have snapped them.

On their drawing boards, engineers call this give and take “tolerance.” Tolerance is the amount of stress a wing can take before it snaps.
What engineers build into the cold end of an aluminum wing, we must build into our hearts. How many homes have been broken up, because there is no tolerance---no give or take, no patience.
Aesop has a fable titled, “The Oak and the Reed.” In a mighty storm the proud Oak said, “I will not bend before the wind.” Then a sudden strong gust of wind came and uprooted the unbending Oak. As the Oak lay prostrate on the ground, it saw a tiny reed swaying in the storm. The Oak asked, “How is it that I who am so mighty have been uprooted, whereas you who are so frail still stand in the storm?’’ The Reed answered, ‘‘I give in a little to the wind.” How often just to give in, to say, “I’m sorry,” has saved many a relationship.

Patience is not weakness; it is not becoming a door mat. It is an experience of such great love that it wins over people. No person ever treated Abraham Lincoln with greater contempt than Edwin Stanton. He called Lincoln a “low cunning clown.” He nicknamed him “the original gorilla.” Lincoln said nothing. Instead, when he needed a Secretary of War, Lincoln appointed Stanton, because he was the best man for the job. He treated Stanton with every courtesy.

The years wore on. The night came when Lincoln was assassinated. The body of the murdered President was taken to a little room. That night, Stanton looked down on the face of Lincoln in all its ruggedness; and, through tears, Stanton said: “There lies the greatest ruler of men the world has ever seen.” The patience of love had conquered in the end.

It is only patience that will help people become better than they are and make us better than we are.
Like the shaft of water hitting the turbines at Niagara making them move, so love not striking back moves people toward God and toward one another.

I do not want

The bravery of those

Who, gun in hand,

Rush forth to slay their foes.

Not hatred, greed,

Or glory of conquest,

Would I find rooted

In my human breast.

But this, 0 God, I ask:

“Please make me strong

To offer love to those

Who do me wrong.”

by:james lau

~ColleGE's TriP~

7th of nov~
our college travex international college organized a trip went to putrajaya and malacca for our tour guide senior on coach~
so we are a junior just followed them go and know more the historical~


this's the pic of travex international college

Putrajaya~

after we finished visit putrajaya~
we went to malacca~
our 1st destination is bukit china~

portugese's village^^